Sex - what is it and what the use of it!

What is human sexdrive? Is it something that helps us reproduce and spread our genes as stated by darwin`? A product of ourselves being an impressing organism selecting those features in our partners that seem to help us spread our genes?

What role has sex got in our societys? Is there any kind of sex that is not justified? How about homosexuality, transexuality and women openly showing their sexuality?

How about sodomy and sado-masochism, can these variations be justified and how should we explain them?

Please discuss.

so well, i think anything is allowed to do provided that you're married.

Godsgirl wrote:

so well, i think anything is allowed to do provided that you're married.

You didnt answer my central question, what is sexual drive. Is it a compilation of feelings that helps us select a partner, so that welll be able to spread our genes? Is it a divine gift? Is it a gift from hell? What are your thoughts about this?

Why should marriage make a difference? What will change between two mammals if they are married? Is the marriage supposed to be equal or is there different roles for spouses?

SEX= make LOVE

Winglee wrote:

SEX= make LOVE

Sex equals making love according to Winglee. But can there be sex without love?

sex without love is animal. sure enough, humans are animals

Sex drive is instinct. Arguing otherwise is ignorant. A better question is where does instinct come from? How do ducks know how to go south in the winter or fish to swim hundreds of miles back to the river they were born? Of course there is a simple biological answer.

sex is just abiological process to increase our production nothing more nothing less

Conatus wrote:

Godsgirl wrote:

so well, i think anything is allowed to do provided that you're married.

You didnt answer my central question, what is sexual drive. Is it a compilation of feelings that helps us select a partner, so that welll be able to spread our genes? Is it a divine gift? Is it a gift from hell? What are your thoughts about this?

Why should marriage make a difference? What will change between two mammals if they are married? Is the marriage supposed to be equal or is there different roles for spouses?

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1)Sexual drive: Meaning, the "switch" that flips creating a desire for sex? (lustful desire?) Well, there is a perfect framework that is meant for a perfect gift. And if used in the way which was not intended to, then it is indeed a wrong way to "use" the gift. LUST, on the other hand, is a "common human thing". Wrong indeed, IF....lusting for one which is not your one and only wife. If lusting for another which you are not married to, then it is adultery in the heart of a person.

2)Marriage: When a male and female become one flesh.....marriage. There are quite few reasons to why one should only have sex in marriage. #1, marriage is THE perfect/intended framework for man to have sexual intercourse with a women. If one does not use this gift the way it was made for us to use, then we are using it wrongfully(sin). #2, it greatly reduces the rate of abortions, children without parents, a life without the positive/perfect structure of father and mother, and greatly reduces the chance of receiving a sexually transmitted disease. Then again there are probably more reasons not to have sex outside of marriage.

karlmarx wrote:

sex is just abiological process to increase our production nothing more nothing less

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Im so sorry to see that you view the wonderful gift as low and insignificant as you (and many) view it.

Eric wrote:

Sex drive is instinct. Arguing otherwise is ignorant. A better question is where does instinct come from? How do ducks know how to go south in the winter or fish to swim hundreds of miles back to the river they were born? Of course there is a simple biological answer.

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Maybe, but no one can (truly) deny the intelligent design of such an instinct like that.

Winglee wrote:

sex without love is animal. sure enough, humans are animals

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Well, stating , "sex without love is animal", seems to me that you value the gift of sex at some level. Thats good.